An article about my Mother

Of all the rights of women, the greatest is to be a mother as motherhood is the greatest god gift not only to womanhood but also too humanity. I feel proud myself being a girl because I too can spread the greatness of motherhood by showing to my children who mother really is. The famous writer Rudyard Kipling too quotes that God could not be everywhere and therefore he made mothers. Mother is the second name of love form as she starts to love her child before seeing them too. I here like to elaborate the suspense hidden inside the word “MOTHER”.

M- is for the Million things she gave me

O- means only that she is growing Old

T- is for the Tears she shed to save me

H- is for her Heart as pure as gold

E- is for her Eyes with love light shining

R- is for Right and right she will always be.

In life, there are many stages. I have always struggled in each and every kinds of obstacles and burden. I too have found many helping hands from friends, relatives, neighbours and others but none could replace the love and care from my mother. A mother is the best friend anyone could ever ask for. When everyone else turns away, she is the one turning towards you, when you fall, she’s the one that helps you up and when your heart is filled with despair, she’s the one that gives you a glimpse of hope. For when a child is born the mother also is born again. You can fool most of your friends most of the time, but you can’t fool mom. She sees right through you and always knows what’s wrong. Once she gives you that special hug everything seems okay and even though you never want her to let go, the feeling lasts forever. No man is poor who has a Godly mother. The most important person in my life is my mother because she is the one who carried me for 9 months even without a single sigh. My mother had brought me in this wonderful world without any complaining about all the pains she has been through. For me, she is an inspiration to everything I do. She has been in my life since I was born & she will always be in my life no matter what happens. I have learnt to love her from the day I was born but she started to love me even before that. My mother is the most important person in my life. I have been mentioning her in almost all of the essays I write. The problem is, I cannot really express how I feel about her in just words. My mother is not my whole life, but she is a really big part of it. My whole world does not only revolve around her, but she is the most influential person who inspires me. My mother is not just another woman. She is extraordinary. My mother is the most positive and important influence in my life. She taught me everything. In my childhood I learnt how to eat healthy food, how to be well dressed, how to stay safe and healthy from my mother. So on in my teen ages I learnt to cook delicious food, behave well with everybody, respect and love others and face the problems which arise in day to day life from my mother. She taught me how to feel. Well, she did not only do that. She showed me how to handle the feelings of anger, fear, guilt, joy, sadness, excitement, hate and anxiety. She also showed me how to give and take. I learned from her that giving is a lot harder than taking, but the former is much more satisfying when it is done. She told me that giving makes one happy. I am sure she is right because half of her life, she has been giving me what I need, and in spite of all that years of giving, she is happy. Though very slowly, I am learning how to give freely. All that I am or ever hope to be, I owe to my angel Mother. She always supports me for my goals and ambition and that’s the key in pushing my dream. Words have always failed to describe the power, beauty and heroism of my mother's love towards me. My mother gives an awful lot of support to me whether it is visible or just a simple background encouragement. When you are a mother, you are never really alone in your thoughts because a mother always has to think twice, once for herself and once for her child. Not only do mothers support their children but the whole family structure as she is the root of that family tree. When all is well, a mother puts her children before anything else, including their own comfort and happiness. She is a security blanket for me.

As like every mother in this world she too is too caring for me. No matter what physical structure she have but her motherhood towards me covers them all. My mother is the most beautiful woman I ever saw. She is very beautiful and has the kindest eyes that I have ever seen. She not only worked hard to ensure that I had a good upbringing, but was also very strict and often punished me whenever I went wrong. Even though I did not like the punishment then, I now look back and realize that it was meant to lovingly correct me and help me to follow the right path when growing up. All I am I owe to my mother. I attribute my success in life to the moral, intellectual and physical education I received from her. My mother have a slender, small body, but a large heart-a heart so large that everybody’s joys is welcomed in it with hospitable accommodation. My mother is my root, my foundation. She planted the seed that I base my life on, and that is the belief that the ability to achieve starts in your mind. A mother may surrender her life for the sake of their children. And yes my mother is a good cook who always leave us looking forward to the next meal. She knows how to mix the right ingredients to end up with a meal that often leave us licking our fingers. Just the memory of the foods that my mother prepared for us makes me salivate to this present day.

Relatives always tell me stories about my birth. They tell me how important I was to my mom. I was the foundation of her joy, strength, peace and love. It all happened one day, in course of talking with some relatives my mother told us an unforgettable incident that took place in my childhood. As she told me that when I was just in a stage of walking, one day I walked away unknowingly here and there. Might be I was attracted by some kinds of things which happened me to walk towards there. My mother soon realised that I was missing and then wandered here and there in search of me randomly. Suddenly she happened to stop by a grilled gate in front of someone’s house where she located a child’s pair of legs walking inside the house. She without thinking anything in the very moment just went through that little opened gate and suddenly rushed to catch that child from behind who was no other than me myself. She then screamed in joy by finding me as she thought that it was hopeless to find me by any means after I missed. As she was saying this incident when I had been grown up enough to know the motherhood, I realised how come someone know it was their own child’s leg walking towards other’s person gate. She even didn’t think a second and rushed to grab me. That day I then realised what a mother really means. I realised that if anybody can do this kind of act then it’s only no other than mother. How a mother reacts when her a child is missing and as per the definition of mother’s last letter ‘R’ she is always right and just right. Every child’s first utterance word is mother which too somehow figures the love and care of mother. Now I am a successful woman in life and is capable of doing my earnings too but still my mother thinks me as just a child and always treats the same as in my childhood.

 

Now I too am a mother and so is collecting a new experience of motherhood. I when had my own child for the first time in my lap, I forgot all the pains and suffers and then thought it was a precious gift given to me by God. I now become too happy seeing my child and her activities. I always feeds her well and in this due course has spent many nights sleepless just only to please my child. My eyes becomes watery with happiness when I hear the word mother from her mouth. Some parents wants their child to be doctor, engineer, pilot and many other kinds of professional so as to live their life happily but in my case I just want my child to be a good person and be success in whatever she becomes or does. I slowly now have realised how difficult it is to grow a child, it’s a feeling that can only be experienced after being a successful mother. The same experience I am collecting being a mother makes me to feel my own mother as the greatest god gift. A mother is one to whom you hurry when you are in trouble. She raised me with humour, and she raised me to understand that not everything is going to be great—but how to laugh through it. I now realise what else other things my mother sacrificed for my happiness.

My mother not only gave me life but also an amazing foundation to live my life by and also inspiration for my desire. My mother to me means comfort. She's always there for me and makes me feel comfortable even in odd situations. My mother means home to me, my mom is always where my home is. She raised me, took care of me and loved me. My mother means love to me. She loved all my activities and hugged away the pains, cleaned up the spills and has loved me through the best and worst times of my life. I may have let her down plenty of times, but she's never stopped telling me she loves me. My mother, to me, means courage. She's gone through a lot in her life. But, she's kept a good spirit about it all and has never stopped trying to do what is right. My mother means faith to me. She never gives up in her loved ones and has an unlimited amount of faith in my brother and me. We've failed plenty of times, but my mother has believed we can always do whatever we want. She prays for us with through her faith. To me, my mother means life. She gave me life when she could have chosen otherwise. She gave me life and she wants me to live it to the best of my ability.

I have heard many kinds of events in my life about the relation of mother and her children. Many are positive relationship but there are some few negatives too. I have heard of a mother pushing down her children from bridge or cliffs and also making them to suicide or murder them too. My body gets shocked when I hear such news as I can’t even imagine of such behaviour. I have heard many woman leaving their children in forest or river banks after giving birth to them as the birth process isn’t moral in their society. Many mothers too leave their children in hospital due to various reason too. And not only from the side of mother, many children too have done many bad things to their parents and yes to their mothers’ too. I have heard about many famous personality of society who have left their mother in forest to die and many also have left their mothers in different kinds of situations to die after forgetting her contribution to their life. I have heard many educated persons leaving their mother helplessly in different places. Many persons too has left their mother in old homage as they neglect and hesitate to care their mother. I just think how can these educated people do like this to their mother and what others illiterate will do then. But here I consider education doesn’t relate to a mother children bond as many illiterates too have cared their mother successfully and happily. Whatever others might think about their mother but I will never give up loving and caring to my mother. 

Mom, you gave me everything but you never ask me to pay back. You are the best, the greatest woman in this world and in my heart. I love you forever. I am happy when I have you by my side to take care of me, to protect me and to give me your love. I am happy when I am your daughter. In the future, I will be more successful woman in life and I can take care of myself. But in my mother's eyes, I know that I am always her little daughter as I was. Words never ends describing my mother’s role in my life as she has been the most influential person in my life. People celebrate mother’s day once a year just to make a formality but for me every day I wake up turns to be a happy mother’s day and yes too happy children’s day. Mom, I know you are always there for me and will always push me to go after my dreams. I know you will never put any pressure on me but will always walk with me in every step to ensure that I am in the right path towards achieving my goals. Mom you have taught me so much and so I will always be grateful towards you whatever the situation becomes as I have already learnt to handle the worst situation from you.